There once was a rich merchant who had 4 wives. He loved
the 4th wife
the most and adorned her with rich robes and treated her to
delicacies. He
took great care of her and gave her nothing but the best.
He also loved the 3rd wife very much. He was very proud of
her and always
wanted to show her off to his friends. However, the merchant was
always in
great fear that she might run away with some other men.
He loved his 2nd wife, too. She was a very considerate
person, always
patient and in fact was the merchant's confidante. Whenever the
merchant
faced some problems, he always turned to his 2nd wife and she
would always
help him out and tide him through difficult times.
Now, the merchant's 1st wife was a very loyal partner and
made great
contributions in maintaining his wealth and business as well as
taking care
of the household. However, the merchant did not love the first
wife and
although she loved him deeply, he hardly took notice of her.
One day, the merchant fell ill. Before long, he realized
that he was
going to die soon. He thought of his luxurious life and told
himself, "Now
I have 4 wives here with me. But when I die, I'll be alone. How
lonely I'll
be!" So he said to the 4th wife, "I loved you the most, endowed
you with the
finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I'm
dying, will
you follow me and keep me company?" "No way!" replied the 4th
wife and she
walked away without another word. The answer cut like a sharp
knife right
into the merchant's heart.
The sad merchant then said to the 3rd wife, "I have loved
you so much for
all my life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me
company?"
"No!" replied the 3rd wife. "Life is so good over here! I'm
going to remarry
when you die!" The merchant's heart sank and turned cold.
He then said to the 2nd wife, "I always turned to you for
help and you've
always helped me out. Now I need your help again. When I die,
will you
follow me and keep me company?" "I'm sorry, I can't help you out
this time!"
replied the 2nd wife. "At the very most, I can only send you to
your grave."
The answer came like a bolt of thunder and the merchant was
devastated.
Then a voice called out, "I'll leave with you. I'll follow
you no matter
where you go." The merchant looked up and there was his first
wife. She was
so skinny, almost like she suffered from malnutrition. Greatly
grieved, the
merchant said, "I should have taken much better care of you
while I could
have!"
Actually, we all have 4 "wives" in our lives..
The 4th "wife" is our body. No matter how much time and
effort we lavish
in making it look good, it'll leave us when we die.
Our 3rd "wife"? Our possessions, status and wealth. When
we die, they
all go to others.
The 2nd "wife" is our family and friends. No matter how
close they have
been there for us when we're alive, the longest they can stay by
us is up to
the grave.
The 1st "wife" is our soul, often neglected in our pursuit
of material
wealth and sensual pleasure. Guess what? It is actually the
only thing that
follows us wherever we go.
Author unknown
"And how do you benefit if you gain the whole world but lose
your own soul in
the process? Is anything worth more than your soul?" Matthew
16:26 NLT