HIS NEEDS, HER NEEDS
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Understanding Your Differences

Men are not all that complex in their needs, but those needs are very intense. A man has a need for: *Faithfulness: knowledge that the woman he loves will never sell him out.

*Support and submission: assurance that his wife will follow his lead without questioning every decision he makes, especially in crises.

*Encouragement: sympathy, faith support, and understanding - in good times, but even more in bad times.

*Importance: status and value in giving advice in making plans.

*Respect: feeling that he is held in high esteem, privately and publicly.

*A completer: someone to give him input for his decisions, quiet admonishment about his flesh patterns, and spiritual and moral support.

*A partner: someone with whom to share all his life, for life.

Women are more complex. Their needs and desires are numerous, but fluctuate. A woman has a need for:

*Better listening from her husband: interactive, empathetic communication.

*Having her "petty" problems taken seriously: for discussion of (and sometimes help in solving) difficulties.

*More regular and more open communication: obvious attentiveness and interest, both on facts and feelings levels.

*Attention besides when he wants sex: feeling that she's a love partner, not just a love object or tool.

*Appreciation: thanks and gratitude for all she does.

*A real (or apparent) interest in her life: curiosity about her day, beliefs, dreams.

*Demonstrated affection and courtesy in front of others: enjoyment of and pride in being seen with her.

*Being a part of her husband's life: by sharing goals and values with her, talking over business, etc.

*Little remembrances: notes, gifts, or special plans that say, "I love you."

*Quality time away from the kids: whether a weekend away or a drive around the block.

*Inclusion in things he does: companionship in events or wanting her involvement when he's away.

*Her husband's involvement in things she enjoys: willingness to indulge, if not share, her favorite pleasures.

*Understanding: trying to comprehend using intuition and logic.

*Closeness: holding her in his arms, for protecting her.

*Tenderness: use of kind words and sensitive tones.

*Help with the children: in discipline, in training, in presenting a united front.

*Verbal expressions of caring: compliments, praise, affirmation.

*Acceptance of who she is as she is: permission to be imperfect, affirmation of her appearance, character, achievements.

*More family time: everyday attention, regular outings, and vacations.

*Desirability: feeling like a special and feminine woman.




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