Michael is the kind of guy you love to love. He is in a good mood and
always has something positive to say: When someone would ask him how he was
doing, he would reply, "if I were any better, I would be twins!" He was a
natural motivator. If an employee was having a bad day, Michael was there
telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation.
Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to Michael
and asked him, "I don't get it! You can't be a positive person all of the
time. How do you do it?"
Michael replied, "Each morning I wake up and say to myself, you have two
choices today.
You can choose to be in a good mood or you can choose to be in a bad mood.
I choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad happens, I can
choose to be a victim or I can choose to learn from it. I choose to learn
from it. Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept
their complaining or I can point out the positive side of life. I choose
the positive side of life.
"Yeah, right, it's not that easy," I protested.
"Yes, it is," Michael said. "Life is all about choices. When you cut away
all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to
situations. You choose how people affect your mood. You choose to be in a
good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It's your choice how you live
life."
I reflected on what Michael said. Soon thereafter, I left the Tower
Industry to start my own business. We lost touch, but I often thought about
him when I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it.
Several years later, I heard that Michael was involved in a serious
accident, falling some 60 feet from a communications tower.
After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, Michael was released
from the hospital with rods placed in his back.
I saw Michael about six months after the accident. When I asked him how he
was, he replied. "If I were any better, I'd be twins. Wanna see my scars?"
I declined to see his wounds, but I did ask him what had gone through his
mind as the accident took place.
"The first thing that went through my mind was the well-being of my soon to
be born daughter, " Michael replied. "Then, as I lay on the ground, I
remembered that I had two choices: I could choose to live or I could choose
to die. I chose to live."
"Weren't you scared? Did you lose consciousness?" I asked.
Michael continued, "...the paramedics were great. They kept telling me I
was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the ER and I saw the
expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In
their eyes, I read "he's a dead man. I knew I needed to take action."
"What did you do?" I asked.
"Well there was a big burly nurse shouting questions at me," said Michael.
"She asked if I was allergic to anything. "Yes, I replied." The doctors and
nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep breath
and yelled, "Gravity."
Over their laughter, I told them, "I am choosing to live. Operate on me as
if I am alive, not dead." Michael lived, thanks to the skill of his
doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude. I learned from him that
every day we have the choice to live fully.
Attitude, after all, is everything.
"Therefore do not worry about tomorrow,
for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its
own." After all today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday.